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If you want to interact, join me at facebook.com/lisay-life-coach

This is what life coaching is all about. It is about two peers finding the wisdom that is already in your world, but which one needs help to find. So I present:

There is Wisdom in the Corner

Talk to me, talk to him, talk to her, talk directly to them, but remember…wisdom is in the corner… now listen

In the silence of a room, wisdom stirs upstairs. Contemplating actions, remembrances glare!

Wisdom lurks everywhere, just  waiting to be grasped! And hoping that you’ll see it, not to let it pass.

Wisdom gets you money, fame, or your heart’s desire. But it’s never taken seriously, No, wisdom stays in the corner.

In the darkness of the night while you lay awake in bed. Wisdom comes alive and stirs within your head.

Wisdom’s all around us, but we are blind to see. We pick out what we want, and throw back what we need.

Wisdom encompasses more, than we will ever know. It’s around us everyday, but we just watch it go.

When you’re feeling sad and blue and feel like such a loner. Remember there is wisdom near, it’s somewhere in the corner.

As a life coach, it is my job to help you find the wisdom in your life. It is there. If you need help finding it, let me know.

Cheers!

 

Hey~

Just a reminder I am starting my life coaching business. I am on face book. You get a lot of the same information, and better yet it gives more opportunity to interact. Plus, I will soon be ready to offer free sampling. So, if you would like to interact or if you would like some help with anything, look me up at facebook.com/lisay-life-coach.

You can never go forward looking in the rear view mirror. That is what life coaching is all about. Starting in the present and moving forward. So, stop looking at the past. Look toward tomorrow.

It isn’t to say that the past is not important. It is. But we can’t change the past. We can only work on today and tomorrow. I know the past is hard to let go of sometimes. It is for everyone.

I do get it. There may be some sort of hurt from the past. We have all been hurt. This hurt may still creep up every now and then. Shoot, it may show itself every day. Maybe it is the loss of a loved one. But at the end of the day, you have to ask yourself how does this matter today? When you lie down to go to sleep tonight, ask yourself, does it matter? Truly, it doesn’t. If you want help with this, you know who to ask. Me.

My suggestion is to release it. Close your eyes. Imagine God or an angel or your imaginary friend, what ever suits you, and imagine you have this hurt written down on a piece of paper. Now, fold it up, and hand it over to your God, angel, imaginary friend or even a bunch of balloons. Imagine this hurt being carried off. You watch it float away.  Feel relieved? Good. If this didn’t work, I have another method of releasing. But this is a very helpful exercise.

Now, stop looking in the rear view mirror. Look forward and put your life in drive.

Cheers!

 

 

So, if you are looking for some help, join me at facebook.com/lisay-life-coach and I will be offering free samples.

Bull riding is a short term adventure. Sure, there is a lot of anticipation of a long ride. But bull riding only lasts 8 seconds at best.

Bull riders get no where. They think this time I will ride that bull longer, but the bull always bucks that rider right off. The rider dusts off his jeans and prepares for the next ride. But what the rider does not seem to understand is that everyone knows it is bull riding and they don’t expect anything more than a few seconds of entertainment.

My suggestion is to stop bull riding. It gets you no where. Truth carries you as far as you want to go. Then you don’t need a clown to get the bull from stomping on you.

Cheers!

Seeing that this was supposed to go up this morning, and  it is nearly 1 p.m., I am a bit behind today. It’s Monday after all. Actually, I have been busy all morning helping someone.

So how is everybody this afternoon?

I have to say, I love you guys! I am getting a lot of response. But web designers, enough is enough. I do have to say that I understand web designers wanting business. But I am really wanting to go this alone. Why? Well, I got burned by a web designer once. And this was a friend. They almost completely ruined my business. It cost me thousands to fix and unknown amount of lost business. Besides that, I like my web presence just the way it is. It is meant to be simple and maybe a little quirky. So, web designers, sorry, but I  am not in the market right now. I am not here to have a fancy web site. I am here to help people.

That said, I hope to have another location on the web this week where I will be conducting my business.

I don’t know how to respond to everyone. I do suggest that you go to my face book page and follow me there: facebook.com/lisay-life-coach. This  is where I feel I can more easily respond AND as I said before, maybe I can help a little with some sample coaching.

But please, no more web designers wanting my business.

OK, have a great day!

 

 

 

Hey~

So, I am starting a new career. I have had other businesses. Now, I want to help people in a different more personal way. I would be really happy if people get help, maybe an *aha* moment from something I say. That would be great. Maybe I will find clients for my life coaching business.

I am still becoming certified right now. But it never hurts to start getting the word out.

I could really use your help. I have a face book page. It is very similar to this blog. It has most of the same, and additional thoughts. So, if you like this, perhaps you would *like* my face book page? It is facebook.com/lisay-life-coach.

Besides getting my name out there, the face book page gives more opportunity for interaction. You can more easily tell me what is on your mind, and I can more easily respond.

Bonus is I can offer free samples on face book as well. So, it you like face book, I hope you will check it out.

Cheers!

My goal is to build up people.

Hey

Your customers are hiding.
Your prospects are hiding.
You are hiding.
All of us are.
Hiding from change. Hiding from responsibility. Hiding from the prospect of feeling foolish.
We hide by avoiding things that will change us. We hide by asking for reassurance. We hide by letting someone else speak up and lead.
We live in fear of feelings.
We’re lucky enough that the things we used to fear don’t happen so often any more, so now we fear feelings.
We will rationalize in extraordinary ways to avoid coming out of hiding.
When in doubt, look in the hiding places.
Olly, olly, oxen free~

Let’s stop hiding.

 

Hey~

So, sometimes life feels so overwhelming. There are times when you get so overwhelmed that you don’t know which way to turn. Then so often we freeze and do nothing. Then we think about it. We feel guilty about not doing something. Then we feel overwhelmed some more. What to do?

Make a decision. Sit down. Take the situation one item at a time. Don’t worry about doing things in the right order. Don’t worry about doing the right first thing first. Just start anywhere. Things have a way of getting sorted on their own. Make a decision. It feels good. Now, if you need to, make the next decision. Now keep going. What you will discover is that making the first decision is a big step toward a goal.

Now, a thought about caring for others too much. Is there a person or persons you care about more than they care about you? When you care about others more than they care about you, you are going to have a lot of heart break. Get out of the relationship and cut your losses. I know it is hard to do this, but it really is the best. This sort of heart break only weighs you down. So, let it go.

Cheers!

 

Hey everyone!

I just want to share my motto:

COACHIEVE, COANSWER

I believe that the answer to even the biggest questions in life are in you. I see my job as a coach is to guide you to that answer. Then, it is my job to give you the courage, if necessary, to follow through.

Cheers!

If you have ever viewed the dawn from a very high place you know that the night first resists the dawn, seemingly unwilling to allow the light to expose the world. As it first peers over the horizon, the sun seems to shine directly on you, brightening a narrow band of the world before you. As the sun rises, more and more of what lies on either side of that band is illuminated. And as the dawn becomes day, all around you becomes clear.

Growing as a person is like a dawning. In the beginning, everyone mires around in darkness. Then through the labor of discovery, a rush of insight suddenly brightens a field of knowledge.

With the right coach, you will be challenged to do more than you think is possible. With the right coach, you will be challenged to theorize, that you create understanding. The right coach will show you how to do that. How to grow as a person is difficult to teach, but you must demand it of your coach. Growing as a person can be difficult to attain, but you must demand it of yourself. This action is demanding and exacting.

Your knowledge will expand, but it becomes less certain; you will become restless, inquiring. Easy assumptions and comfortable prejudices will be challenged by doubt and concern. Conformist opinion will begin to be replaced by unpopular belief, apathy by principled action.

I urge each of you to make the climb to this very high place. The climb is long and arduous. The risks of the climb are many. But the climb is exhilarating, and the view is spectacular.

Join me!