People think they can’t change. People get stuck in a cycle of starting and trying. It is all one big experiment. But you need to experiment to find the answer. With the proper guidance, you will have better luck finding the answer as long as you put in the effort.
Changing or transforming is not about will-power or self-discipline. No one is going to nag, scold, or intimidate you into changing who you are and how you live your life. My approach was to have fun. When you make it fun, you get over the fear.
So have some fun. Don’t struggle. Learn about you. Play with ideas. Explore options. Try things you have not tried before. Free up your imagination for the right answer or approach for you to meet your needs on a higher level, an empowering level.
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