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How are you today?
Deaf ears
Do you ever reach out to your friends and get little if any response? Do you ever get baffled by the lack of response? It is not so unusual for people to try to get help from the people they know to just be ignored. Ignored.
Why won’t anyone help me?
The reason you don’t get a lot of support can be for various reasons. It may be the help you need. That is, maybe they don’t know how to help you. It may be that you ask too often. It may be that they don’t understand you are asking for help. Or, it can be any number of things.
You still need help
If you are not getting the help you need, you still need help. Quite often you just need someone to listen. When you talk through an issue, it often sorts itself out. Then a plan can be made. You can either make a plan on how you can make things better by yourself or how to get the help you need.
Don’t be alone
Things are rarely as bad as they seem. They just seem worse than they are because you are thinking about it too much. When you have something that is bothering you, you may dwell on it. When you do that, you make it grow. The worst case scenario starts to build in your mind.
Don’t be alone. There are two options to not being alone. One, pick one person you think is the best to turn to, and make that person listen. Just listen. Make sure that you really need to be heard. Two, if you have no one that will step up and listen, then you have to find someone who will. There are professional listeners out there. Life coaches are such people.
Life coaches are thinking partners. They listen. They question. They guide you to the core of the issue and then to the answer.
It would be my pleasure.
It would be my pleasure to listen. But, if not me, then find someone. But my advice is to find someone that keeps it simple. If someone wants to complicate things, that is not helpful. Don’t be with someone who turns molehills into mountains. Find someone who will turn that mountain into a molehill.
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Smile for me.
Lisa Y coaching.