I helped these people.

Hey you lovely people~

I just wanted to share a few stories:

My life was a mess. I avoided Lisa for weeks. But, she would not stop reaching out to me. I had made some bad choices (drugs) and did not know how to tell her. When I finally got in touch with her after 3 weeks of no contact on my part, she was encouraging and did not make me feel bad for screwing things up. I still have things to work out, but I know she will stick by me. Christopher G., Orange, CA

Lisa is a very good listener. She is good at seeing both sides of everything. She was helpful at directing me to the solution. ~Lisa H., Minneapolis, MN

What I like about Lisa is that she does not act superior. I have had other counselors who acted as if they are perfect and their lives are perfect. Lisa does not do that. She is real. Marie Y., Escondido, CA

Lisa saved our marriage! We tried RAT (relationship acceptance therapy). It was actually fun. It has been 3 months since rat and things are still much improved…. With her help, we are more accepting of each other. Anne H., Fargo, ND

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Have a great day every one!

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Excitement of winning

Hello friends~

How are you? Are you as confused as I am about what day of the week it is after a three day weekend?

Seems to me that fear is the biggest influence most people have. I know it sounds strange, but people actually fear success and having what they want. This can be health, relationships, career or anything really. Sometimes people get lazy about trying to get what they want because they may actually get it.

If you think about it, you may actually have to lose something to get that thing you really want. Maybe you have to give up personal time. Maybe you have to give up privacy. Maybe it is space on the couch. Or maybe it is the carbs.

Don’t let the fear of losing be greater than the excitement of winning.

Really, losing one thing may mean you gain pleasure. It may mean leaving your comfort zone, but expanding your world. Life is about trade offs. You may trade off old boring habits for adventure. You may find purpose, passion and boldness.

If you would like a thinking partner, let me know how you would like to win.

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Leave a message. What’s up?

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Happy Independence Day

Hello you lovely people!

Happy Independence Day!

Are you truly free? Are you an independent person?

You are not independent if:

…..you are not living life the way you want

…..you are living under someone else’s thumb

…..you need someone else to do right by you

…..you are in debt or don’t have financial freedom

Freedom to live life on your terms is the best freedom. But this sort of freedom takes effort.

Goals without actions is a dream. Activity without goals is pointless.

If you would like this sort of freedom, let me know how I can help.

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Let today be your Independence Day!

Let freedom ring!

starting

Hey

Starting is always the hardest part.

Unless it is something you know you like to do, doing any project the hardest part is starting no matter what it is. Thinking about something, especially something unfamiliar, makes the project hard to start. When you are thinking about it, and wishing you were doing it because you think you should do it, makes the situation even worse. Sometimes that feeling I should but I am not actually works in reverse. Sometimes it just makes you drag your feet a little more.

Motivation. What is motivation? Goals you want to meet. A purpose to fulfill. Fears to overcome.

When you get past the thinking about it phase and start doing it, it usually is not as bad as you thought it would be. Sometimes, it is even fun. So, anyway, if there is something you want to do, well, do it. Stop thinking about it. Try it! Dig in!

When you accomplish what you set out to accomplish, think how good you will feel.

Got to go. I have a project to start.

If you want help with starting your project, or need help with motivation, let me know. www.facebook.com/lisaylifecoach

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Happy Sunday!

Hello you lovely people!

Just wanted to take time and just say hello.  I hope is well with you. Are you enjoying a  three day weekend? I hope so! Not everyone is fortunate enough to have a job which gets the weekend off. If you are one of those, I hope you are making the most of your day anyway.

For me, I have been busy working in the yard, and finally got the chance to finish for the day. Now I have some coaching studying to do. I may have to take a nap so I can be awake for Big Brother!

Any of you watch Big Brother? I find it fascinating. All the deals people make. All the broken promises that people make. Everyone is constantly lying. Right when you think things are going to go one way they change their mind and do something else. Everyone is so paranoid. People can be just chatting and others think they are up to something.

I hope that is not how people really are. I hate to think of people being so manipulative all the time.

It does not have to be that way. We can have what we want without all that lying and manipulation. Frankly, I would not want to live my life like that. Do you? What kind of life would it be if we can’t trust? What kind of world would it be if we were paranoid all the time? I don’t know, and I don’t want to find out. I like to have faith.

Okay, well just wanted to say hi and wish everyone a happy Sunday.

If there is anything you would like to talk about, leave me a message, www.facebook.com/lisaylifecoach

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The life you want most.

Some thirty years ago two young brothers started their lives, and  careers. They were very much alike, these two young men. Both were smart, both were personable and both—as young twenty somethings are—were filled with ambitious dreams for the future. Now in their 50s, both are still very much alike. Both are happily married with children. Except one works at a job he hates. He is unfulfilled. The other, as the owner of his own company. He loves his work. He is living the dream.

What Made The Difference

Have you ever wondered, as I have, what makes this kind of difference in people’s lives? It isn’t desire, motivation, talent or dedication. It isn’t that one person wants their ideal life, and the other doesn’t. The difference lies with one being a life pro and the other needing help and not getting it. And that is why I am writing to you and to people like you about life coaching. For that is the whole purpose of life coaches is to give their clients guidance—and to be the steward for the life they want most.

A Life Coach Is Unlike Counselors

You see, a life coach is a unique from say psychiatrists, psychologists or any counselor. Their job is to listen and question and help you to find the answer that lies within you. Then, they are your thinking partner, and together you make an action plan. Each day, a life coach will try to inspire you.

Having a Thinking Partner Is Power

There is no better way to figure out what to do than to talk about it to someone. Sometimes you need to talk to a neutral person. You need to talk to someone who is new to a situation so they do not have any preconceived ideas. You also need someone who will mostly listen and sometimes ask questions. It is also helpful to talk to someone who will be honest with you. Family and friends are great, but sometimes they say things that may not be true so as to not hurt your feelings. Or sometimes they discourage you from action. A life coach like me, has commands the truth and the courage to tell it.

How I can Help

General Coaching: What’s your problem? Money Coaching: Financial Independence Training. Get out of debt, No budget, More financial freedom. Relationship Acceptance Training: Improve any relationship. It does not matter with whom you have a problem, be it spouse, sibling, co worker, friend you can improve a relationship. Reconcile. Accept. Together. If you have never talked to a coach, you don’t know how useful it can be.

Would You Like to Improve Your Life? Would Solving Your Problems Right Now Help You Out?

Give it a try. For general coaching and Relationship Acceptance Training the first session is on me. Simply go to www.facebook.com/lisaylifecoach and leave me a message. I don’t put people into long contracts. You can stop our talks any time. I don’t drag things out. If you don’t need months and months of sessions, I won’t tell you you do. You continue your sessions as long as you want. If you feel as I do that this is a fair and reasonable proposition, then you will want to find out without delay if working with me with help you to have the life you most desire.

Want to Live Large?

There are 10 steps: Knowing their purpose. Not taking no for an answer. Stubborn, pigheaded determination. Self discipline to over come resistance. A warrior attitude. Over coming fear. Hard, effective work. Integrity. Boldness.

Co achieve, co answer!