The number one reason people fail in life is because they listen to their friends, family, and neighbors. ~Napoleon Hill

We all know it is easy to talk yourself out of achieving your dreams and goals. But the question still remains on whether or not you should share your goals with friends and family.

– Sometimes if you share your goals with your family and friends then they start to list the reasons why you cannot achieve your goals especially if they haven’t achieved theirs. Even if you were very motivated, your mind can become discouraged by their beliefs and you might find yourself discouraged too.

– You can also start to burn yourself out because now that you shared your goals everyone wants to see progress. You start to do things based on other peoples timeline because they expect to see results.

Or the other hand

– The words of discouragement may just be the fuel you need that motivates and drive you to want to achieve your goals even more if for nothing else, just to prove them wrong.

– You start to hold yourself accountable because now that you put it out there you must follow through on your word, or at least make a valid attempt.

Don’t underestimate the effect your mind has on you especially if the person you share your goals with is someone that you trust. Know yourself and work at your own pace whether you choose to share your goals or not. The point I’m making is that you are in charge of your success, whether you succeed or not should not discourage you from setting new goals. But most of all be your own cheerleader, your opinion is what should matter to you the most.

Ref: dragosroua